The Art of Letting Go

(Photo taken by Cidy Bascon at Gumasa Beach)

One of the reasons why people get so sentimental ... It's because memories are the only things that don't change. When everything else does, there are things in life that you can't hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful. When you met someone you learned to love, you thought that it was a destiny who made your path cross. But what if making your path cross is just part of the game that the playful destiny create? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn't really meant to stay but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you've already fallen. It's easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love. Some might think its just an excuse, some might not actually believe. Why they don't see is the fact that it hurts you even more to hurt someone, who doesn't deserve to be hurt. Specially you can't state the reason why you really have to leave.

You can never own something that was never yours... so let's stop gripping on things we expect to last forever. Nothing last forever, its a lie. Everything is transitory. So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that its just borrowed. So someday when it's gone it won't take eternity just to let it go.

When your feelings get stronger with someone, its always wise to stop for a while and give your heart a time to breath. A time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion. Because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship.

Love sometimes can be magic but magic sometimes can be illusion. There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain kind of emotions... So that I'll never have to experience pain, never feel disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken. To have a heart that's whole but numb, or a heart that's broken but real. .. Someday we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight.. Maybe when that times come , we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves. ..Realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren't really meant for us.. But i guess learning takes time and mistakes make one's journey fun. Life is what we make it. Love makes the world go round. So let's live, love and take whatever pains in brings. Though its hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen. It's harder to stop when I know it's everything I always wanted. But you know what? I'm GLAD.... I'm glad it happened. We're good friends and I'm thankful for that. Take care always my dear friend.... I'm JUST HERE..